And here we are again

 Hey guys,

long time no speak.Sorry about that,life gets in the way sometimes and takes full charge ahead and then here you are years later reminiscing about the past memories good and old.

How is life treating you ? been a tough few years for us all for sure but we will get to where we want and need to be and that's the main thing,keeping holding on.whether we know it or not we have got this.

Writing this post now i'm reminded of how much i enjoy writing and how it's an escape for me.i am not the most intellectial person and by no means won't win any awards for my writing,but it feels good to be sat on my laptop tapping away at the keys.(having to correct all my spelling mistakes haha that's one thing that will never change.

so i am 25 now wowie they do say time flies when you are having fun,but i wish it could slow down a little so we can enjoy ourselves in the moment.

the date today is 19th december 2021 and i have just wrapped a few christmas pressies.

2022 is round the corner and i still think we are in 2020.

i have got a good feeling about the new year ahead and really think i am going to accomplish some goals and become the best me finally.

this post doesn't really have a purpose just a little diary for myself and to say hey.do people even do blogs anymore?

whats your favourite memory of 2021 ?

leave me a comment below i would love to hear from you

if i don't speak to you before christmas,i hope you have a lovely time with family and loved ones and best wishes for the new year.

love Carla xx

Worry

                                            

I heard this quote whilst listening to a @poppyjamie podcast today @happynotperfect and it stayed with me!

Why spend time worrying about non significant things, when the worrying won’t stop them from happening,but if anything make me experience them twice!

Easier said than done when you are a natural worrier,but one day at a time...... I’m going to join my worries and realise that it’s all going to be ok 👌

You come across as a doer rather than an achiever.

You come across as a doer rather than an achiever.

These are the words that someone said to me once,they seem to be stuck in my mind.

Are they right ? 

Do I do a lot and not actually achieve results?

What is a doer - the person who does something.A person who acts rather than merely talking or thinking.

Associated with positive words - worker,organiser,activist,succeeded and ACHIEVER.

So is it possible to be both a doer and an achiever ?

What is an achiever - a person who achieves a high or specified level of success.

Key words - performer,worker,entrepreneur and DOER.

“In basic terms a doer is someone who simply lists their responsibilities and duties.”

“An achiever reframes those responsibilities into their accomplishments.”

“Doers are practical, but friendly and they usually have a great sense of urgency and like to be in charge. They focus on tasks.”

“An achiever covers quantifiable improvements rather than task focused. They use powerful and compelling content to showcase their shining moments.”

So do I just list me responsibilities and tasks rather than actually putting pen to paper pardon the pun and get out in the world and make shit happen.

The example that comes to mind is Someone that tells everyone that they are going to the gym or a certain exercise class in order to push and give themselves motivation to actually go.As opposed to someone who tells themselves,right tone to go to the gym and off they go,get on with the task and boom they’ve achieved a task off there check list.

I was given the advice from a careers professional who doesn’t know me as a person,but only from my CV.

I can’t help but feel I have taken this sentence to heart.Has it struck a chord with me personally.

I am always going on about getting a good job,making lots of money and being successful.In order to life to the highest and afford an apartment in London.

My latest is that if I haven’t achieved a well paid job by June,1/2 way through the year in order of me just repeating the year with no change.I am just going somewhere away.Do not know for how long or where,but a destination out of the UK.Travelling.

Maybe I need to be more conscious of how I’m spending my time and that I make the most out of it and achieve great results.

What’s your opinion on this ?

Carla 

7 days,then repeat

7 days in the week then just repeat again 

Monday,Tuesday,Wednesday,Thursday,Friday,Saturday,Sunday repeat forever 

We wake up every morning we are so grateful to open our eyes and be alive each and every day.

Work 5 days play 2.How does that work? Who made the rules ?

Who’s to say everyday shouldn’t be a Friday.

Don’t dread Mondays,it’s just as good as any other.

It is what we make it!

Living for the weekend.STOP.Yeah we have 365 days to live but life’s short.

Do one thing that scares you each day.One think that makes you a better stronger person.Lots of things that you love and most of all be happy ❤️

Life is for living.

So live in the moment and live the life you want to live.

As after all one day ..... it will end 🌎

Am I too much?

Am I too much ?

Am I ok ?

He’s not good for me but I’m still crazy about him.

The thought makes me act how I don’t like.Am I going psycho ?

Some people really aren’t good for your health.

What am I doing? Why ? I know it’s wrong. I know it’s bad but that doesn’t stop me.Honestly girl you are worth more than feeling like this. 

Stop it girl.Get over it.Grow and move on.

Just want some clarification,then I’ll get on with me.

Boy oh boy you did it again 

XOXO

Here’s to putting us first!

“Nothing breaks like the heart-nothings going to save us now” 

Finding myself in my room in the dark listening to a breakup playlist crying my heart out.Not even had a break up but just needed some emotional girl love songs as I’m so over guys for the last time.

2019 is my year for knowing my worth!! Which for all of us girls is more than we ever know and is limitless.

22 and still getting sucked into the lies of immature worthless guys.There the worthless ones who don’t appreciate you and don’t you ever think less than that.

My time is precious and it’s mine! To not be spent on people who aren’t willing to use there time.

Something i don’t seem to get “if someone wanted to talk to you or be in your life,they’d make an effort”.

Fucking feelings aye! Need to start taking things as they are in the moment and nothing more.

Here to putting us first!

Carla xoxo

He’s not that great!

How to tell yourself that a guy doesn’t give a fuck about you ..... if he did he’d make an effort to call.

“Listen here you beautiful bitch.Stop crying over a fuck boy who doesn’t give a shit about you and find yourself a real man who will make you the centre of his entire fucking world.”

Stop giving a damn about the guy who doesn’t give a damn about you 

If your not on his mind,he shouldn’t be on yours 

He’s not that great

You are better and worth so much more 

I’m sorry but he doesn’t give a shit about you! So move on and stop wasting energy and precious time 

You already know the truth 

Realise .... you did nothing wrong 

You are a badass sassy queen stay strong and put you first 💁🏻‍♀️😘